There are two sides to me; depressant and anti-depressant.
The depressant side manifests itself through isolation. Isolation is attractive because it seems so protective, and so secure. But, it only feeds my depressive state. The only thing that proves isolation safety to be a lie is being aware that I am an isolater.
Isolation can be so deceptive. Why? Because it does not require physical absence. I wished I could offer some words of wisdom on how to defeat the depressant side but, I can not.
However, I hold on to this truth. The valley in the center of a wave resides between two peaks. Therefore, I only have to look up to find my anti-depressant. Seratonin be damned! Guess, I better get climbing.
Can you honestly say you are “content” both, inside and out?
What is “Contentment”?
Where do we find contentment?
Should fleeting environmental circumstances affect our contentment?
Should we rely on personal pleasures or perishable possessions to fuel our contentment?
Apostle Paul seems to share the answers to these questions in Chapter 4 of his letter to the congregation at Philippi.
The secret to un-wavering contentment can be found in Paul’s statement:
“Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!” Philippians 4:4
The key word in this scripture is: ALWAYS. Here the word always is used to mean “completely and infinitely rely upon” the LORD (Jesus).
Just as we all made the decision to have faith in and believe upon our Lord (Jesus), we must also remember to rejoice (or find our Joy) in Him at all times. No matter the environmental or emotional circumstances that happen often and inconveniently in this earthly life.
Rejoicing (to have joy or be joyful) is not a right nor a privilege; it is a choice. I think my personal relationship with Christ is what allows me to be joyful in all circumstances; pain, and suffering included.
How often do you contemplate your purpose in the life you have been given? Do you know what your purpose is? Are your priorities positioned in a way that allow you to fulfill your purpose? Often times I feel like a rudderless ship tossed about on a sea of choices. It is the variety of these choices which cause my purpose to be swayed by my selfish pleasure seeking desires. Do I condemn myself for focusing my purpose inward through fleeting accomplishments, accolades, and worldly goal attainment? No. I give myself permission to be human. However, being human does not excuse me from reevaluating my purpose as life tosses me to and fro. But, how do I reevaluate my purpose? As a Christian what measuring device do I use to find the purpose that truly fulfills my soul? Many times in my life I made the mistake of thinking the “Free Will” I was given was so I could discover “MY” purpose, but it wasn’t. The free will I was given was given for use in service; service to God and other mini-me’s who bear His Image. Service to God and others is a rudder to my torrent soul; it leads me always back to my “Father.” On an Enlistment Poster Jesus said, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 7:21) It is God’s will that provides me with my purpose, and His will, will, be done on earth as it is in heaven!
Most often we associate this word with the Catholic community or with certain denominational affiliations. Under the Law, associations and affiliations were the cornerstone for the Levitical priesthood. However, today, with thanks given to our Lord Jesus Christ and the Gospel he has charged us with, we are all priests. Peter even said so in (1 Peter 2:5). Old Testament priests and New Testament priests are quite different. The Old Testament priests talked about the Messiah to come, whereas the New Testament priests, that’s US, talks about the Messiah who has come. You don’t have to wear clerical collars or an ornamental robe to be a New Testament priest. And, God knows you don’t have to be perfect. All you have to do is believe, receive, and share the SON with others. Unknown to themselves, many Christian men and women have went to their graves as fully qualified priests. Know this in your hearts: Man, denominational or not, has no authority to qualify YOU as a priest; only God through his Son Jesus Christ can do that! If you fully believe and receive that you have been saved by Jesus, and that He lived and died, and He was resurrected by the Father then you are a priest of the Gospel (Good News) of Jesus Christ. Christ chose you, and He qualified you!! Let NO one tell you otherwise.
Most aspiring Mentors ask: “How do I connect quickly with the person I am mentoring.” To answer this question I lean on Mr. John Maxwell. Mr. Maxwell has been mentoring me via books, blogs, and videos. He says there are three questions for a quick and fulfilling connection.
1.What do you dream about?
2.What do you cry about?
3.What makes you happy?
The video below encapsulates the purpose of mentoring: TO INSPIRE BY AUTHENTIC LOVE AND ENCOURAGEMENT
I realize I do not do conversations well; but it doesn’t mean i can’t learn too. It was tough to hear Ms. Headlee talk about the things i often fail at, when it comes to meaingful conversation. Since my graduation from Seminary four years ago, I have been a student of communication. Why? To improve my marriage, be a better Dad to my Daughter, and to be an attentive minister to everyone I come into conversation with. Jesus was a master communicator, and one of the most beautiful, effective, and mutally satisfying conversations ever held was between Jesus and a Samaritan woman (John 4:7-26). Ms. Headlee’s wise counsel in the video closely resembles the prinicples she teaches.